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This week has been a crazy ride. There were a lot of issues, misunderstandings and cold shoulders in our group. Bittersweet things happened, things that I would never forget. I’ve learned two things from the shit we’ve been through — 1) when something goes wrong between you and your friends, you should tell them right away so nobody would get hurt TOO much, so no harsh things would be said, so everything would be okay right away. 2) I need to learn to accept things. I am thankful that my friends believe the saying forgive and forget. And yep, that’s what we did. I’m just hoping that everything would be fine and everything would be back to normal.
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Aimee SAID;
December 14, 2009 at 2:19 am
awww! that’s pretty sad. but, yeah, every relationship goes through that. conflicts strengthens bonds…
but forgive-and-forget doesn’t really apply to me, because one way or another, I’ll still remember what happened. well, I think, forgetting doesn’t really solve the problem, acceptance does.
Your second learning is truly the starting point of forgiveness. And I’m glad that, at least, the conflict is somehow settled. After some time, you’ll just laugh at what happened.